On one hand, I can see why this happens, but on the other hand it seems to me that money should not be such a big obstacle that it can’t be overcome. Talking to your partner about money is the key, and it is very important.
Hearing about family experiences can give you added perspective on your partner's financial choices, or insight into why they may be reluctant to talk about money, says Ed Coambs, a marriage and family therapist.
Lesson #1 – Practice Good Communication Skills. Unfortunately, money is one of those things that no one ever talks about, so it can be difficult to begin an open and honest dialogue with your partner about your financial situation.